To day

To day.

     To day is a beautiful day. The morning dew reminds my childhood days and when I see the beautiful environment it creates a nostalgic feeling within. The morning golden rays of light of the rising sun give me an immense joy that I am having a bright future. And really today was beautiful day. The chirruping sounds of the birds gives me nice and life full experience. 

Change of mind

Change of mind

    For me every experience is a new endeavor. Every failure and wrong is not a fall but turning point and realization that I am a weak being. It is not a repetition of the same act but over coming the human weakness that I supposed to face. Mistake and failure is part and partial of the fallen man and the capacity to see meaning is the new hope that the new Adam gave us through his resurrection and ascending to heaven to be our God forever and to forgive and to give meaning in spite of all our weaknesses.

Ask and you will be given

      Suppose if some one who is very rich and has everything that you wanted in your life and say to you to ask whatever you wanted not only one thing but all that you wanted. What would be you reaction. Wouldn’t you ask him immediately? In the same way our God had been telling us to ask Him, we not only often but always refuse to ask Him who is the only true giver. If not ask Him even once in your life now is the time to ask and I say to you to ask and He will grant and no doubt. If only we can understand and able to love him that the spontaneity to express will come. He is our father and mother does feel the closeness and ask Him. Never doubt His unconditional love but just accept and trust you shall have the things that you wanted and not only one but all that you wanted….

Quiz competition

    It was a wonderful day I had and more especially the evening quiz time that I had. It was well organized and was very much participatory one where everyone had a chance to express themselves to show their love and interest on Mary through quiz. Thank to Liturgy Group.

What happens to me when I sit in front of Blessed Sacrament?

      It is not that easy to sit for an hour or half in one place doing nothing if I really don’t understand and feel the presence of Jesus the Son of God. Some times to get this feeling I find very difficult especially when I a captured with many external things and I do not consider to real presence of Jesus.

    Sometimes I need to understand the meaning to be with someone who loves us without being expecting us to love first. And if you find such kind of person you will find even a longest to a minute. For me He just listens to whatever I say and I can say anything I feel. That gives me joy to sit with him. He loves and doesn’t care for time. Yet sometime I feel I am somewhere in the quite place that no one there with me to support and be there. But it is only when I am fully with him both mind and body I find joys and satisfaction more than any external things could give. To be with him is like diving in a fresh water in hot summer because he refreshes me and He is a refresher for all too.

What is my image on Mary?

Whenever the word Mary comes to my mind, I just think of a loving lady holding her child and looking to me with a great love and assurance. I have a very beautiful image on her but one thing I have about her image is that she is not limitate only to a magnificent look but she is a lady who can be any image and any situation and condition because she is the Lady who is with all human without partial to anyone. I can see her among the poor as well as with rich. She is the Lady among Ladies.

Above all she is sweet lady and always loving and ever ready to come to my aid.

Who is Mary for today’s world?

Mary is the mother of humanity whom we oblige to love and respect. Therefore I think she is the only mother that can change the life of children of today’s world. The world is changing very fast and young people tend to live a life without listening the advice their mothers. She (Mother Mary) is the only hope and we who are the closest children to her living under her mantle have to responsibility to approach to her for her intercession so that she may turn and give the divine advice to her prodigal sons and daughters. She is always a mother to all irrespective to any characters. She always care for us and we instead of loving to her we tend to face our back to her. The more the world turn to her the more she’ll follow us because she loves us and she wants us to see living and listen to her son our Lord Jesus. In loving Jesus and Mary we do not destroy but build peace. However the devil does not want to see us living a happy life. So turn to our Heavenly mother if you want to live a happy life.

I am sorry!

 This is the most heart breaking word for anybody because it touches our self ego. It is the most difficult thing to say to someone I am sorry even if you are wrong more so especially if that person is small to you and less important. It is the most difficult among the shortest sentence to utter in our human colloquy. To say this one sentence take more courage to say. If you are able to say it is the most important word to live a life of relationship. It dismisses all the enmity if you able to accept your fault and say to him/her ,”I am sorry for the wrong that I’ve done to you”. If you find difficult to say, I would encourage to say it more often whenever you find yourself mistake even in small thing to other. This will make you a humble person.  

Learning to forgive:

 Hove you ever forgave to a person who inflict wrong on you without a cause? It is difficult, isn’t it? To forgive is you have to be a person of unconditional and you cannot forgive for the cost of self gain or respect. It is difficult task no doubt to practice often but not always impossible if we practice to forgive in every little way that we face. To forgive is a part learning and never ends from learning to forgive. What would you do if someone does wrong to you? Will you just go and bung that person? No, at that moment you be patience and speak to that person when you become cool because in hot head you can’t recognize the right and wrong but only in cool manner. Forgive is much more powerful than the violence. So learnt to accept and love yourself and then other things will just fall in the line and acceptance and love are the most important tools of forgiving person.

Learning to love:

 No one is born master to be love of course there is little spark of love in each person but that can be realize only when we learn how to love. To love some one is learning to love yourself because to love someone requires self-realization that you love first then only you will be able to love the other. Without love yourself you cannot love other person. If you say that you love someone without loving yourself first is a liar because to love other need sacrifice and without love there is no sacrifice and if you do not love yourself you can’t sacrifice for the that person.

     So learn to love yourself first then automatically you will become a person of love. Without firewood and charcoal fire does not burn in the same way  you need to burn with fire of love first then only you can burnt other with the same flame of love. 

Divert negative to positive thought

 Ha! It is a stagnant process for me because often I remain with negative mind than to change in to positive and even if I want to I find difficult. It is not easy task to convert anything and everything in to a positive all of a sudden but it is slow process and that is by daily practice without considering the amount of failure then only one can turn to positive mindset. To be positive thinker is not easy job. It is always to judge and make a negative comment for other but difficult task to praise. But everything is not that impossible and always there is a way and that way is practice and consistency in doing good thing.

Learn to renounce:

 To give up all the possession is the most difficult thing for human. Therefore no one wants to give his/ her possession and live happy life without anything. It is madness for the world but when we see carefully in a religious perspective it is the most lofty choices and generous act that one can offer. It is very difficult to let go all our pride, sensuality, laziness and our entire human ego because they are the dominant characters in life. If one does not have strong good moral background it is impossible to renounce. To be a renounce person one must be a person who willed to let go his/her egoism.

Learn to be positive

 For me to be positive is not easy tasks for human and I feel difficult to be positive minded person especially in moments of ups and down. To be positive means not only to think positive even in  immoral behaviour, act and say it nothing wrong… because wrong cannot be right but rather feeling sorry for all the weakness and say to God and your love one or to any other people I'm sorry and I will not repeat any more. This is a positive point to be made and not by compromising with the wrong act and hoping the love of God and acceptance from other but by lamenting over the wrong act to do right for the next. To be positive in life is that in spite of all the wrong that you have committed still craving the love God and change your life to a good one by giving up all instead of lost with that wrongness.

Learning to be patience

This is one of the most difficult parts of life. Often we find failing to be patience. However I believe that every failure is not just and event but teaches something in a little way. In this for me I have learnt little by little how to be patience in my life from every failure and mistake. Every thing that happen in our life is an event to learn and nothing happen for the sake of happening. Life is a large field for learning and never ends till we reach to our last breath. And learning can happen only when we are able to patience in our mistake and failure and able to accept all that happen out of our likeness. First learn to be patience if you want to be success. Patience can cope with any situation and come up with good solution.

Call to give

Call to give is the beautiful and common call to all humanity by God to give each other. This call is not exempt for anybody included. All are involved in one way or another. Some are called to give for other totally without expecting anything externally to get back. It is a wonderful gift and quenching one. Giving is getting and not one way process because the giver receives more benefit in his/her mind and heart than the receiver. So try to live this call to this full with hope for the greater gift to receive in future.